Practical Advice to Reuniting with Your Boyfriend

Although there is plenty advice available on the question of how to get your boyfriend back most of it really is not worth very much. Begging him to take you back really does not strike me as a good way of going about things.



Some of the advice you will hear pertains to employing mind games and tactics to provoke him to jealousy and sometimes it will work but basing a relationship on games and jealousy is never a good idea. You might be so desperate that you don't really care but that type of relationship is really not likely to last. The problems of the past will resurface and you will simply end up back where you are - apart.



Without resorting to games, trickery or even love spells how about just apologizing for what you did wrong? Sounds simple doesn't it? Now, I'm not suggesting that the whole breakup was your fault, but more than likely you did one or two things wrong. It can't hurt to apologize for that.



If you did make mistakes and you are mature enough to acknowledge the fact then see this as an opportunity to make changes. By doing so you will not repeat past mistakes should you and your man find your way back to each other and therefore will spare each other more pain.



Apologizing alone is a very beneficial thing to do even if it does not have the desired result of a reunion between the two of you. At the very least you will have learned what you should not do in your next relationship. By figuring out your mistakes and making the changes you will find this is a win-win situation.



When you make contact for the purpose of giving your apology keep it short and sweet. Let him know that you understand your mistakes and that you are genuinely sorry for any pain that you caused him.



Do not resort to crying and begging and do not go into it with grand expectations of him taking you back right on the spot. It could be that he won't. He may need time to mull it all over and make up his mind about whether or not he wants to try again even with the new and more mature version of you.



Let him have his space if he doesn't immediately agree to a reconciliation. Leave him alone for a while and let him have the time he needs to make up his mind about what he wants to do. If you keep nagging him you will invariably worsen the situation.



While you let him have his space get on with your own life. Don't hang around waiting for his call. Take time out for yourself to do things that make you feel good. Get a make-over so you look your absolute best and spend time with your friends. Sitting around and worrying is only going to make time move slower and frustrate you more.



By simply following this advice you will stand a much better chance at reconciliation than you would if you employ games and tricks to provoke him to jealousy. It's your choice - good luck!



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